Read Me

Welcome to my blog, to my confessions, as they were.

If you are under 18, please consult your parent or guardian before reading anything else here.

Parents / Guardians. I think that everything here is written in good taste. Still, I have tried to be as honest as possible - this should be a forum where I can explore subjects that are, frankly, taboo in my world. Still, I think that the subjects here are important and I hope that the semi-anonymity of the internet will facilitate conversations that simply cannot be had in person.

- Nice Jewish Girl

Monday, December 24, 2007

Introductory Post

Hello. Welcome to my (sexual) confession(s).

The Orthodox Jewish world does not encourage frank expression of sexual desire, except in marriage, and I am healthily skeptical that those conversations occur in very many marriages. The Orthodox Jewish world further portrays to (single) women the notion that (single) men are fairly filled with lust, and it is the responsibility of a woman to restrain not merely her own desires, but those of men as well.

There is no place for a non-anonymous confession: to openly admit that I long to lie in a man's arms at night, to desire and be desired, to stamp my name on such yearning, has no place in the public Orthodox sphere. Passion is the prize of marriage, nothing less.

Still, I believe that these things I want are the necessarily secret hope of many observant women, and I would like to believe that this blog will not merely be my voice, but the voice of those many women who long, as I do, to be valued through touch.

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